Tantrika Samois' Blog

On paper versus in actual practice

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oh my god this is so much work!

And by work, I mean organization and energy/inspiration/time management.

I am in the process of getting set up on a new site that will host my audio so you lovely folks that like to listen (as much as you like to look) can get access to my juiciest stories in audio format but good grief this is a lot of small, moving parts to deal with while trying to build an island empire! Ordered a new hands free microphone to improve audio quality and to also add some interesting options in terms of ambient noise.

If you would like an invitation to the new blog site with audio, send me an email. If you don't hear from me right away - be patient. I am still trying to get the new house ready for the audio party I am inviting you too and I don't want you stopping by too early. I want everything there up and ready for your arrival.

I am VERY excited about this. Almost as excited as I am when I am about to see you (and yes, this excites me. I only deal with the best kinds of folks so i have every reason to be excited!)

If you are a known playmate, let me know when you contact me!

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Move along, little doggie!

Parts of this blog will be moving to a new residence, complete with audio narration links. If you are interested in continuing to keep up with my blog, please send me a note for the new link.

See you on the aural side!

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Drawing the line between role play and creep rehearsals.

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Drawing the line between role play and creep rehearsals.

Role play is alot like Pandora's box. You have no idea what you are going to find until you open it, and once opened, it is impossible to pretend that it doesn't exist. In practice, this is what pornography is, especially on the internet; just one, cinematic role play of whatever your mind can conceive of that involves sex and ___insert anything here___. (Pun intended).

And as you all know, there are some seriously broken, damaged individuals out there who really need intense counseling, heavy medication or more Jesus in their life. I can never tell which.

In person, however, roleplay takes on a whole other level of uncomfortable when you don't understand where someone is coming from, or where they are going with something. Then, you immediately start asking yourself questions about whether this is harmless role play or creep rehearsal for future acting out in real time with a not-so-voluntary participant. As women, this question strikes closer to our hearts than it does yours since we have been dealing with the creepy, the predatory and the sexually abusive from childhood and it isn't limited to strangers or know sex offender registrants. This is a sad statement to make about the affairs of the world but it is true and pretending otherwise or arguing it doesn't make it any less true or real for females everywhere.

The value of a decent human being who is also a male is priceless in ways that we can't begin to explain adequately and no, this does not mean that we feel compelled to drop to our knees and give you a blow job in admiration and thanks. Nice fantasy, though, right? :-)

As a mature female (read: definitely NOT…

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Sometimes, history is worth repeating.

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Especially when it comes to gems like this. Oh man, they really don't write country music like they used to! So don't ask me how I ended up here, just appreciate that I did and I probably laughed harder than you will.

"You're the reason our kids are ugly"

sung by Loretta Lyn and Conway Twitty


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